Role-play can be a great way to surprise your woman, and to add some spice to your love life. A lot of people tend to think that role-play must always involve some overly kinky things that some of us are not ready for. This isn’t necessarily true. There are countless ways to role-play, and if you and your lady haven’t had the chance to experience it, you can start out simple and easily without overwhelming either of you. Best of all, you can make it a great surprise for her. All you have to do is focus on a little planning beforehand.
Become a Stranger to Her
The easiest way to surprise a woman with role-play is by pretending to be a stranger to her. The next time the two of you have arranged for you to come visit her, show up at her house, ring the bell, and then pretend to be someone who is trying to sell her something. The ‘something’ that you are trying to sell should be something that you know she will enjoy. For example, you could tell her that you are selling kisses, and then offer to give her a few samples. You could also tell her that you are offering complimentary back massages. She may laugh at you, but try your best to stay in character.
If you really want to get involved with your role, come up with a fake name, and anything else that you think you may need. Continue with your role-play to encourage her to join in. If she can tell you put in a lot of effort to surprise her, usually she will play along. If she doesn’t seem interested, remember not to push her.
Make the Most Out of What You HaveSometimes role-play doesn’t seem like it will be as much fun if you don’t have all the items you think you need. If you show up to her door as a man offering massages, you don’t have to run out and buy an expensive massage table. Make the most out of what you already have. Take two chairs, drape a sheet or towel over them, and tell her to lie down. You can also have her lie on the floor, or the couch. More often than not, she’s not going to care what you use to make the scene seem more real. The important thing is making sure that she has a good time, so that she’ll be willing to try role-playing with you again. Usually, you want your first role-play to be fun and flirty, especially if one, or both of you are new to role-playing.
Surprising her with role-play is a great way to open the doors to having a sex life that is more exciting for the two of you. How she responds will often depend on how you go about presenting it to her. Even if you already know about some of her hardcore kinks, don’t jump into those right away. That can end up causing a lot more harm than good. Take your time and let her enjoy the surprise that you thought up for her. She will appreciate all of the effort you went through to make sure that she enjoyed the role-play, and chances are she will want to do it again.